Don’t get attached to anything. It all changes. Life, circumstances, thoughts, goals, people. Nothing is exempt from change, even the things you believe in and cling to most tightly. Stop trying to freeze it in place, just let it fucking go.

I love how “you just haven’t met the right man yet” didn’t work so they resorted to “WELL ACKSHUALLY I’m a woman inside so if you won’t have sex with me you’re a bigoted genital fetishist!”

(Being a bi radfem is fun because I get to be like “no buddy it’s not your dick I have a problem with IT’S YOU.”)

I’m listening to The Feminine Mystique on Audible read by Parker Posey but I’m a little distracted because Parker Posey is a goddess and her voice is sexy and yes I’m fully aware of the irony here

A glass of chardonnay* and a Frasier marathon and I’m shopping telescopes on Amazon.

(I haven’t watched this show in a decade! It was my first fandom. It got me into opera, classical music, wine, and inspired my interest in psychology until I realized it would require science coursework. I hardcore shipped Niles and Daphne, wrote melodramatic fic, and attended two filmings in L.A. with my fellow Internet nerds before meeting Internet people was a safe-ish normal thing. How I weaseled my parents into that is still beyond me. Anyway, I met David and he was lovely and my teenage life was complete.)

 

*the birthday party was somehow worse than expected; I’ve earned it.